Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Eating Words for Breakfast

Today is a fresh day in my life. The turning point was last night when some of my thoughts caught me off hook. I have said things that I never intended to mean anything. I have always shied away from writing for the public. But, last night's thoughts changed all that. So, this morning, I'm eating my words for breakfast. 

Writing under pseudonyms always pleased me, as few people would read it and the few who read it would be most unlikely to know who's behind the words. I was afraid of two things: recognition and criticism. I always wanted to write for my own peace. It was therapeutic. Writing helped me ease my pains. I really wonder now, though, whether it was therapeutic at all if nobody read it. 

My perspective changed for a lot of reasons. If I don't get a single piece of criticism or recognition, I wouldn't ever know whether there were other angles to the same topic. I would be ego-centric. I would hate to be interrupted (something that happened frequently off late). I would never see the other side of things: the beautiful side or the ugly side, depending on which way you look at it. 

Writing is a conversation. I do not talk to my friends about my problems, my pains. But, I write. If I was really positive about what I always wrote, I would always have written under my name. So, it's not really recognition that I am worried about; it's criticism. I faked the attitude that recognition would take the spirit off my writing and for the same reason, I said I didn't need recognition. I said, I was afraid that once people started reading me, I would write for their satisfaction, rather than mine. What I was really running away from, was criticism. Writing for my own peace, showing my anger to none but me, I've failed to differentiate what I am really inside and what I look like on the outside. 

Writers need criticism. At the end of criticism is recognition. And, without recognition, a writer hasn't tread one step beyond himself. Without recognition, he has only managed to please himself. Writing for the masses, as I wish to take up now, requires commitment and discipline. I'm known to be lethargic and it is quite possible that I won't write regularly. But, when one writes under his own name, he has to be bothered about his self-esteem and he must know that he is not anybody else but himself, right then. 

With that rather challenging thought, I woke up this morning and ate the words of my past, with bitterness. Who would want to admit his mistake after propounding it for so long? 

The point is, I must. I haven't really thought about the periodicity of my writing. But, let's say this for now: I certainly hope to meet you at regular intervals and I would like to share my thoughts. Criticism or recognition, do not fail to write back. Good day, Good night!

Suhail Rasheed

2 comments:

Unknown said...

it was a good start!!keep goin...

you should keep writing dear...like you said for the public...i promise to read...

Suhail Rasheed said...

thank you, dear...